Mental health issues increasingly complicate the high school experience for students across the United States. A recent panel discussion involving ten high school students from diverse backgrounds highlighted the pressures they face, from academic demands to social dynamics.
Students voiced concerns about the impact of academic stress and peer relationships on their mental well-being. One senior, Erin, noted that while bullying is not a major issue at her school, she recognizes that belonging to a supportive community is crucial for maintaining mental health. In contrast, Andrew, who transferred to a new district, shared his struggles with feeling isolated during his first year, emphasizing how difficult it was to connect with others.
Ellison, another senior, pointed out that students often make quick judgments about each other, which can hinder friendships and exacerbate feelings of loneliness. Chay’ce, a junior, echoed this sentiment, suggesting that perceptions about peers can lead to exclusion, particularly for new students.
The conversation also touched on the pressure to excel academically. Jadon, a junior, mentioned that a certain level of stress is expected as students prepare for their futures. However, others like Anari expressed concern over the overwhelming fear of student debt and the pressure to succeed in college before even graduating high school. Andrew remarked that his motivation to join the military stemmed from a desire to avoid the financial burdens associated with college tuition.
Zoe, a junior, described how attending a high-achieving school created anxiety about achieving high grades and pursuing prestigious colleges, even when her chosen career path did not require a college degree. This aligns with Erin’s observation that students often feel trapped in a cycle of high expectations, where any deviation from the norm is viewed negatively.
Chay’ce noted that once students start taking advanced classes, they feel compelled to maintain that trajectory, even when it becomes exhausting. Erin added that the pressure can feel relentless, leaving students with a sense of obligation rather than pride in their achievements.
The role of school counselors also came under scrutiny. Jadon appreciated having access to a dedicated college and career counselor, but highlighted that many students struggle to find helpful guidance. Anari’s experience with her college adviser left her feeling unsupported, as she sought specific advice for her veterinary aspirations. Andrew criticized the lack of ongoing support, stating that students often receive little assistance once they express interest in college.
As the discussion progressed, students urged for more recognition of diverse paths after high school. They emphasized that there are many routes to success beyond traditional college education, and that students should feel empowered to pursue their own interests without the pressure of conforming to peer expectations.
The students’ experiences illustrate a growing urgency to address mental health in high schools. As academic pressures mount and social dynamics shift, schools must prioritize mental health resources and foster environments where students feel supported and valued, regardless of their chosen paths.